【大天使加百利】你与家人

明曲

【大天使加百利】2018年9月25日信息

For enlightening human beings, how you interact with your family members and significant others can be the most challenging area to transform.  This is because it is the area where your conditioning is greatest, and old habits can be well established, running automatically without your conscious awareness.

对于开明的人类，你如何与家庭成员以及其他有意义之人交互会是最具有挑战性的转变领域。这是因为这个领域是你的条件/状况最大的地方，旧的习性会很好地建立，自动地运行，而你却意识不到

So how do you address this? Just like with any other area you wish to evolve, with intention, your true desire to change, and greater awareness. The key is to step out of automatic responses, into more conscious interaction. Try to be more aware. If you catch yourself reacting unconsciously, stop and feel into the situation. Is this an old pattern that doesn’t even match who you are anymore? How would you like to approach this now, based on your latest level of attainment?

那么你如何处理？就像其他你希望发展的领域，伴随着意图，对改变的渴望，以及更大的意识。关键是离开自动反应，进入更有意识的交互。试着变得更有意识。如果你发现自己无意识地反应，停下来，感受情况。这是不再匹配你所是的一个旧模式吗？现在你想要如何处理它，基于你最新的成就水平？

If you have already reacted in an old way that doesn’t match how you would like to approach things now, simply address it in that moment. Apologize and readjust. This is a powerful act of shifting the energy.

如果你现在就已经在旧的方式（并不匹配你想要处理事物的方式）中反应，就在当下处理它。道歉并调整。这是一个强大的转变能量的行为

Consciously practice empathy for your loved ones. Try to look at them with new eyes and feel into their perspective. Take an observant role. What are they afraid of? What are they struggling with? What do they need to feel safe and loved? What can you do to break the old pattern of interaction?

为你心爱的人有意识地实践同理心。试着伴随着新的眼光看待他们并感受他们的观点。拾起善于观察的角色。他们在害怕什么？他们在挣扎于什么？他们对什么需要感到安全和被爱？你可以做什么来打破旧的交互模式？

Practice self awareness. What is looking to be acknowledged and healed within yourself to release these old patterns? Are you practicing self care? The more aligned and balanced you are, the more you will be able to stay in an empowered space while interacting with those you love.

实践自我意识。什么在你之内寻求被认识到并被疗愈以便释放这些旧的模式？你在实践自我关怀吗？你越对齐和平衡，你越能够处于授权的境地，同时与你爱的人交互

Last, we suggest you be the love. Being the love doesn’t mean you accept being treated inappropriately by anyone. It is never loving to support someone in showing up in such a limited version of self. Sometimes it is necessary to anchor love and make the choice to love someone from afar until they can learn to interact in ways that are more appropriate. Holding the space with boundaries that support wellness and healthier connection is transformative.

最后，我们建议你去成为爱。成为爱并不意味着接纳被任何人不恰当地对待。支持别人在如此有限的自我版本中呈现从未是有爱的。有时候有必要去锚定爱并选择从远处爱别人，直到他们学会在更恰当的方式中交互。伴随着支持福祉与更健康连接的边界保持空间是具有改·革能力的

Be easy with yourself and others as you create these new ways of interacting. Big changes come from small consistent steps. If you fall into reactivity or old patterns, simply be aware and redirect. Like anything else, with practice it will become easier and easier.

善待自己和他人，随着你创造这些新的交互方式。巨大的改变来自始终如一的小步伐。如果你落入自发性的反应或旧模式，只是去意识到并重新定向。就像其他东西，通过练习，它会变得更容易，更简单

So lead with love, Dear Ones, both for yourself and those closest to you as you tackle this area of transformation, and you will be able to change your dance with others into something much more enjoyable for everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

所以伴随着爱引领，亲爱的一们，为你自己以及与你亲密的人，随着你解决这个转变的领域，你将能够改变你与他人的舞蹈，将它变成对每个涉及的人来说更令人享受的东西。

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翻译：Nick Chan https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/73tLXVsDDwizkGN1KZt6pA