你不是一个直升机父母

明曲

造物能量-你不是一个直升机父母

Dear Ones,
亲爱的
You cannot see or perhaps, sense what you have created. Likely, you wish you had not created this revolution, for the current effects of this transition are much more unpleasant than you anticipated.
你无法看到或者感到你创造了什么。很有可能，你希望你没有创造这个革命，因为这个转变的当前影响比你预期的更令人不悦
You believed the global transition from fear to love would happen softly and graciously. Even though we, of the Universes, prophesied that those fully immersed in fear would fight to retain those fears, you did not believe their fight would be so painful.
你相信地球从恐惧到爱的转变会温柔、优雅地发生。即使我们，宇宙存在，也预告了那些完全沉浸于恐惧的人会战斗来保留那些恐惧，你并不相信他们的战斗会是如此痛苦的
You have forgotten the prophesies that all structures would fall before being rebuilt with new love materials. Just as you had difficulties understanding how dramatic your dark night of the soul would be. It is one thing to obtain knowledge and quite another to live through it.
你忘记了预告所说的，所有结构在用爱的材料重建之前会先倒下。就像你难以理解你灵魂的暗夜会多剧烈。知道它和体验它是两码事
You forerunners have moved beyond your dark night of the soul. Even so, the fear of those now moving through their dark night of the soul is painful for you to observe. So painful you question the outcome.
你们先驱已经通过了灵魂的暗夜。即便如此，那些正在体验灵魂暗夜之人的恐惧你光看着就很痛苦。如此痛苦以至于你对结果存有疑惑
You are beginning to believe your joy will never happen, that the prophecies of love and joy are false. That even though a small percentage of the totality will create wealth and power, as has been true in 3D, the remainder of the world’s population will flail about in despair. That not much has changed in the world other than your hope for a better tomorrow. Hope that seem to be dashed with every news story or angry retort.
你在开始相信你的喜悦永远不会发生，爱与喜悦的预言是假的。只有很小比例的人会创造丰盛和力量，就像3D中那样，剩下的人会在绝望中捶打。世界没有多大的改变，除了你希望一个更美好的明天。希望伴随着每个新文故事或愤怒的评击看似破灭
Such is so for a reason. You completed your dark night of the soul and cleared your dust bunnies of fear from the corners. What you are observing is that those immediately following you – the second and third waves – are moving through their dark night of the soul.
这是有原因的。你完成了你的灵魂暗夜，清理了角落里恐惧的尘埃。你正在看到的是那些紧紧跟在你身后的人---第二波和第三波---正在通过他们灵魂的暗夜
Those waves following you likely include friends or family. You inched them closer to their new beings just by being you, by shining your new light of love brightly. That closeness that love creates emotional angst within you as you observe their pain of discarding their deeply hidden secrets, just as you once did.
这些波浪可能包含朋友或家人。你通过做自己、通过闪耀你新的爱之光来慢慢推动他们更加接近他们新的存在。这个紧密性，这个爱，在你之内创造了焦虑，随着你观察他们丢弃深度隐藏的秘密而来的痛苦
After this wave, you will likely not feel the need to view future wave shifts for those now in their dark night of the soul are your people, your friends and family.
在这一波过后，你可能不会感到需要去审视未来波浪的转变，因为那些此刻处于灵魂暗夜的人是你的人、朋友和家人
So you feel some of their pain. Not because you have to, but because they are part of your heart.
所以你感到他们的一些痛苦。不是因为你必须，而是因为他们是你心的一部分
When you have a minor cut on your finger, you focus on that cut until it heals. It is your choice whether to focus on the pain of your friends and family or move beyond. Focusing on their pain does not help them, nor you. Just as when they cut their finger, there is no need for you to halt your life until their finger heals.
当你的手指划伤，你专注于那个伤口直到痊愈。你来选择要不要专注于朋友和家人的痛苦。专注于他们的痛苦不会帮助他们或你。就像当他们割伤手指，你不需要去停止你的生活直到他们的手指痊愈
You are a caretaker – a role you honed for eons both of the earth and the Universes. You would not be a forerunner if you did not have that caretaker gene. To shift the earth, as you did months ago, you prepared for eons to negate yourself.
你是一个守护者---一个你在地球和宇宙中磨练了恒久的角色。如果你没有这个守护者基因，你就不会成为一个先驱。要转变地球，就像你几个月前所做的，你准备了恒久来否定自己
It is time for you to move beyond your caretaker role – something you find difficult. You worked so diligently to prepare for this transition that you now have difficulties remembering you need not caretake anyone but yourself.
是时候去超越你的守护者角色---你发现很难。你如此辛勤地为这个转变做准备，你现在难以忆起你不需要看管任何人除了自己
Allow those following to fully experience their dark night of the soul, just as you need to caretake yourself enough to experience joy in your new world. Those following will not exit their dark night of the soul if all they sense from you forerunners is more fear or angst.
让那些后来者完全体验他们的灵魂暗夜，就像你需要足够照看自己来体验在新世界中的喜悦。那些后来者不会退出他们的灵魂暗夜，如果他们从你先驱身上感到的只有更多的恐惧或焦虑
Stop caretaking – even those you love. It is counterproductive for them and you. Allow them to voice their pain and anger without trying to sugarcoat it or make it better. They are fearful and angry, just as you were during your dark night of the soul. There was seemingly no light for you then and seemingly no light for your loved ones now. Similarly, you could not sit at a desk beside your child throughout their school years, even though some helicopter parents tried to do so – with unpleasant results.
停止照看---即使是你爱的人。这会适得其反。让他们表达他们的痛苦和愤怒而不试图用糖衣包裹它或使它变得更好。他们恐惧和愤怒，就像你在灵魂暗夜期间那样。看似没有光明。同样的，你不能陪着孩子在学校上课，即使一些直升机父母试图这么做---但产生了不愉快的结果
You are the light, not the caretaker. Nor are any waves following going to be caretakers.
你是光，不是照看者。后来的波浪也不会是
It is time for individual inner power and strength. Only those who remain in 3D to provide a counterpoint will retain that 3D caretaker role.
是时候让个人的内在力量展现。只有那些处于3D的人（提供一个反差）会保留3D照看者角色
Allow yourself to be a beacon as those following seem to fall apart – only to reinvent themselves in love as you have done. You are a beacon of joy.
让自己成为一个灯塔，当那些跟随者看似分崩离析---却在爱中重塑了自身。你是一个喜悦的灯塔
Those following will create that same beacon of joy role eventually. You are not a 3D helicopter parent. You are a strong example of the joy that is possible.
那些跟随者最终会创造相同的喜悦灯塔角色。你不是一个3D直升机父母。你是一个强大的喜悦榜样
You are you. Allow that to be and play your role instead of attempting to play the 3D caretaker role you so capably completed. So be it. Amen.
你是你。允许这一点，扮演你的角色，而不是试图扮演3D照看者的角色，你已经完结。就是如此。

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../youre.../
日期：2021年9月13日
来自：Brenda Hoffman
译者：NickChan