你的自我孤立还舒服吗?

明曲

造物能量-你的自我孤立还舒服吗?

Dear Ones,
亲爱的
Even though many of you are concerned about your self-isolation, you also crave it. For you are used to being a social creature – attending parties, joining or creating family gatherings, your work-a-day world. Yet, you are enjoying your alone time, something you find difficult to admit even to yourself.
即使你们许多人担忧自己的自我孤立，但你也渴望它。因为你曾经是一个社会生物---参加聚会，加入或创造家庭聚会，朝九晚五的生活。但，你享受你的独处时间，你难以承认这一点，即使对自己
Such is so because of your 3D social needs. How could you learn your 3D shoulds and have tos if you were not trained in various social situations? In 3D, you so adjusted to certain behaviors and needs that you ignored yourself, your ability to be by yourself. Your popularity depended on friends and social interactions. As a result, you learned how to dress, what to say, how to be the life of the party, or at least, an accepted participant.
这是因为你的3D社会需求。如果你没有在各种涩会情况中被训练，你如何学习3D的应该和必须条款？在3D，你如此习惯于某些行为和需求，以至于忽视了自己以及做自己的能力。你的受欢迎程度取决于朋友和涩会交互。因此，你学会了如何打扮，说话，聚会，至少，如何成为一个被接纳的参与者
But most of you did not learn how to be comfortable with yourself without the entertainment or social interactions indicating you were an accepted part of a 3D group. Such is what you are experiencing now. Some of you with fear or angst. Others with great joy. Being with yourself without expected interactions is a new experience for most.
但你们大多数人没有学会如何对自己感到舒适，不带娱乐或涩会交互来表明你是一个被接受的3D团体的一份子。这就是你正在体验的。你们一些人害怕或焦虑。其他人有着巨大的喜悦。与自己同在而没有期望的交互对大多数人来说是一个新的体验
Do not berate yourself if such isolation is a difficult adjustment for you. Nor do you need to berate others who are finding the same.
如果这样的孤立对你来说是一个艰难的调整，不要责备自己。你也不需要责备同样这么认为的其他人
Learning to love yourself includes remembering that you are the life of your own party – that others can participate but not direct your party. That is, others can participate at your directive. You are the host, planner, and key party participant forevermore.
学习爱自己，包括记住你是自己聚会的主心骨---其他人可以参与但不能指挥你的聚会。也就是，别人可以在你的指挥下参与。你是主人、规划人、关键的聚会参与者
A concept so new it is a bit frightening for most. For you proved your 3D social standing by providing a list of friends you told others about. Friends important enough to you that you would dress, act, speak or do the group thought or action of the moment. Group thoughts most often generated by one or two key people. You might even have found yourself doing or saying something that was not you but expected in that group setting.
一个如此新颖的概念，对大多数人来说有点吓人。因为你通过展示朋友的列表来证明你的3D涩会地位。对你来说重要的朋友，你会按照集体思想或行为来打扮、行为和说话。集体思想通常由一个或两个关键人物生成。
In some 3D groups, you might have acted one way and differently in another group. Or you may have honed your group skills to behave much the same in all groups. Even so, in 3D, you made certain your words and actions aligned with the group setting.
在一些3D团体中你可能在一种方式中行为，在其它团体你可能在不同的方式中行为。或者你可能已经磨练了你的团体技能在所有团体中差不多一样地行为。即便如此，在3D中，你做出特定的话语和行为来与团体设定对齐
You might have sounded or acted differently in a family setting than was true at work or an adult party. Persona after persona, you needed to remember, so the settings did not bleed into one another. As an infant, those delineations were not yet formed, so you cried when you were hungry and laughed when you felt like it. It is only after you were socialized that you learned to function differently in different situations. Never quit allowing yourself to be you throughout your day.
你可能在家庭设定中的说话与行为方式与工作和聚会中的不一样。一个接一个的面具，你需要记住，这样设定不会与另一个混合。作为一个婴儿，这些东西还未形成，所以当你饥饿你就哭泣，当你高兴你就笑。只有在你涩会化后，你学会了在不同的情况中不一样地运行。永远不要放弃做自己
First, the number of children you thought of as friends became important. Then, the number of people attracted to you was paramount as a teen-ager. And that 3D need evolved until you lost yourself in the scramble to be accepted by others.
首先，你认为是朋友的孩子数量变得重要。然后，被你吸引的青少年数量变得重要。那个3D需求不断发展，直到你在争求他人的接纳中迷失
So it is this current isolation is difficult for many. Learning to be content with your own company is a new concept many are fighting against. They are counting the days until they can return to the social circle of yesterday. Not because they need others to exist, but because they are uncomfortable with themselves.
所以当前的孤立对许多人来说很难。学习对自己的陪伴感到满足是许多人正在努力学习的新概念。他们在数着日子，直到他们可以返回昨日的社交圈。不是因为他们需要别人的存在，而是因为他们对自己感到不舒服
One by one, you forerunners will learn the dramatic beauty of your inner thoughts and actions. You no longer feel the need to please others at the risk of losing or ignoring you. You are strong enough and wise enough to be by yourself. And when or if you return to social interactions, it will be on a different level. You might enjoy new social interactions or be bored. But that joy or boredom will be on your terms instead of reacting, as indicated by the group leader.
一个接一个，你们先驱会学会你内在思想和行为的惊人美丽。你不再感到需要去取悦他人而失去或忽视了自己。你足够强大和明智来做自己。当或者如果你返回涩会交互，它会在一个不同的层面。你可能享受新的涩会交互或感到无聊。但那个喜悦或无聊会是你话语，而不是反应，
This is a new world, and you are a new being. Something you are discovering day-by-day.
这是一个新的世界，你是一个新的存在。你正在每天发现这一点
Those of you forerunners who shifted from needing to be with others to the joys of knowing yourself have completed a large lesson many are just beginning to experience.
你们那些从需要与他人在一起转变到认识自己而感到喜悦之人（先驱）已经完成了许多人刚刚开始的一个巨大课程
Know thyself is the order of the day – a concept COVID has not only allowed but encouraged. So it is each step of your transition journey is pulling you further and further from your 3D center – initially with a great deal of pain that has decreased with each step forward.
认识自己是今天的主题。所以你转变之旅的每一步都在拉你更进一步远离3D中心---一开始会有巨大的痛苦，随着每一步的迈出会渐渐减少
You are indeed a new being with new needs and directions. So be it. Amen.
你确实是一个新的存在，伴随着新的需求和方向。就是如此

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../is-your.../
传导：Brenda Hoffman
译者：NickChan