【大天使加百利】如何与父母相处

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加百利-如何与父母相处

2021年8月25日

We were recently asked, “Why is it my mother can trigger me so quickly and make me feel like I’m 14 again?” We would like to address this today.
我们最近被询问道：“为什么我的母亲可以如此快速地触发我，让我感到自己像14岁一样？”我们今天来谈谈
Your parents, and you, came in with the exact energetics and traits required for you to find your preferred path of experience. Sometimes you parents guide you by showing you who to be. Sometimes they guide you by showing you who not to be. All of this is information for you to decide what your preferences are and who you really are.
你的父母，还有你，伴随着让你找到你偏爱的体验道路所需的确切能量和特性来到地球。有时候父母通过展示你该成为什么样的人来指引你。有时候他们通过展示你不要成为什么样的人来指引你。这一切都是信息，让你决定你的偏好是什么，你真正是谁
There is great love and a deeply respectful soul contract between you, which may have an overlay that feels somewhat triggering. This overlay is designed to help you want to launch your own path, and to continually drive you to find your own truth and your own way. It is what makes you want to ultimately launch into your own life expression.
你们之间有着巨大的爱和深度受敬重的灵魂契约，可能会有一个感觉起来被触发的覆盖。这个覆盖被设计来帮助你踏上自己的道路，不断地推动你去找到自己的真理和道路。这会让你最终想要进入自己的生命表达
You feel that challenging overlay strongest when you are teenagers. That is designed to prepare you to detach from the parents and want to venture out into your own individual life expression, usually around the age of 18. That is why when you get back around your parents you can feel like you regress to being a teen – you are responding to the peak of those energetics. When that particular energetic overlay is not present, you see adult children having never left home and failing to launch.
你在青少年时期会最强烈地感受那个挑战性的覆盖。它被设计来让你为与父母的脱离做好准备，冒险进入个人的生命表达，通常在18岁左右。所以当你回到父母身边，你感觉像变回了青少年---你在对那些能量的峰值起反应。当那个特定的能量覆盖不存在，你可以看到成年子女从未离开家，没有踏上自己的道路
It is not uncommon to have one parent who is much easier to be around and another who is more triggering. This is by design to meet your various needs and was agreed to on a soul level.
一个家长比较好相处，另一个比较容易触发你是很常见的。这被设计成这样来满足你的各种需求，是在灵魂层面上同意的
Another thing that may be causing you discomfort is that your parents came from a different energetic time that you have already evolved beyond. What you may be rejecting is not your parents at all but rather the older energetics and belief systems that are not a match to you.
另一个可能会导致你不舒服的东西就是你的父母来自一个你已经进化超越的不同能量时代。你在拒绝的可能不是你的父母，而是并不匹配你的旧能量和信念
So what is the key to being more comfortable with your parents? It is not necessarily about healing this because it is an energetic template that is meant to last in varying intensity throughout your days. It is about coming to acceptance that the overlay exists for a purpose, and that purpose is for you to find your own truth and your own way.
所以与自己的父母更加舒适地相处的关键是什么？不一定是去疗愈这个情况，因为这是一个能量模版，意在于在不同的强度中陪伴你一天。这是关于接纳覆盖的存在是有一个目标的，那个目标是让你找到自己的真理和道路
Just as you get uncomfortable in your own life when energies no longer match you and this occurs to get you to embrace change when it comes, so it is with these relationships. If you can honour the fact that there is underlying love, respect, and purpose beneath it all you can move from resistance to acceptance, which will make your time with those loved ones much easier. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
就像在能量不匹配你的时候你会变得不舒服，它的发生是让你去拥抱改变，所以这些人际关系也是一样。如果你可以荣耀这一切之下有着一个潜在的爱、尊重、目标，你可以从抗拒进入接纳，这会让你与那些心爱的人相处更加容易。

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2021年8月26日

Many of you put tremendous stress on yourselves to be perfect in your spiritual practices and beat yourselves up if you are not successful in that lofty goal. What we want you to understand is that every single time you find your way back to your truth and your alignment, you drive the shift for yourself and for your planet.
你们许多人对自己施加了很大的压力去完美地进行你的修行，如果你无法实现那个崇高的目标就鞭笞自己。我们希望你明白的是每一次你返回自己的真理和对齐，你就为自己和地球推动了转变
It is normal to have moments of beautiful clarity and other moments where you forget what you know. Every single time you find your way Home to yourself  you send ripples across the universe and your highest self, along with your guides, helpers, and ancestors, wonder at your instincts and innate wisdom.
拥有美丽的明晰时刻以及忘记你知道的东西的时刻是正常的。每一次你找到回家，回归自己的道路，你就把涟漪发送到宇宙中，你的最高自我，连同你的指导、助手、祖先，惊叹于你的直觉和固有智慧
So be easy on yourselves, Dear Ones. You are also beings of ebb and flow. Just as you can trust that the sun rises and sets every day, and the tide goes out and comes back in, understanding you will always find your way back to your truth will help you start to trust yourselves and your journey.
所以不要对自己太苛刻，亲爱的。你也是起起伏伏的存在。就像你能够相信太阳每天都会升起和落下，海洋会潮起潮落，明白你总是会找到返回真理的道路，会帮助你开始相信你自己和你的旅程
And as you progress the need for extremes before you find your way back to yourself will become less and less, and you will remember to choose the light, over and again, not because you pressure yourself but simply because it is your preference and it brings you joy to redirect back into your true essence. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
随着你进化，在你找到回归自己的道路之前对极端的需求会变得越来越少，你会记得去选择光，一次又一次，不是因为你给自己施加压力，而是因为这是你的喜好，重新定向回你真正的本质会带给你喜悦。

大天使加百利


2021年8月27日

There is much energetic shifting going on at this time. This is to give you an opportunity to get really clear about the essence of your desired creations.
此刻有着很多的能量转变在发生。这给予了你一个机会去弄清楚你渴望之物的本质
Imagine your purest desire is mixed in with all kinds of chunks of density. These chunks of density may come from old belief systems and experiences, or from the churned up energies of the collective. You have to extract your dream from what no longer serves you.
想象你最纯粹的渴望是与各种密度的组块融合。这些密度组块可能来自旧的信念系统和体验，或者来自搅拌在一起的集体能量。你必须从不再服务你的东西中提取你的梦想
Prospectors will use various methods to separate the treasure from the worthless materials. They may use screens to agitate the dirt to reveal what has value, or they may use gold pans to swirl water over the sediment until they find the gold.
勘探者会使用各种方法把宝藏与无价值的东西分开。他们可能会使用玻璃去拨开泥土，揭示有价值的东西，或者可能会使用筛子，用水冲洗，直到他们找到黄金
You are in the same process. You are filtering to find your treasure! Each pause and reflection on the way allows you to get clearer about what you wish to create until it is the purest reflection of your energies and the most valuable outcome for you. So if you are finding yourself feeling agitated by the energies, it may help to think of it as you and your dreams are becoming even more refined to give you the purest results that match your intentions. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
你处于相同的进程中。你在过滤，找到你的宝藏！每个暂停和沉思让你更清楚你希望创造什么，直到它是你能量最纯粹的反射，最有价值的结果。所以如果你发现自己对能量感到焦躁不安，把它当作你的梦想在开始变得更加精炼来给予你匹配你意图的最纯粹结果会是有帮助的。

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原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/.../daily-message-wednesday.../
译者：NickChan